10/30/12

Halloween Safety Tips



Are you taking your young ones out for Halloween tomorrow? My sons and I are dressing up as Pirates this year! We will visit a few family member's homes, then go by our local library- they are doing a trunk-or-treat event in the parking lot. I know a lot of local Churches are also hosting free and cheap events for the family as well (which was another option). 

Whatever you decide to do, please keep these safety tips in mind:

Don't let children trick-or-treat alone. Based on age and maturity, they should walk in groups or with a trusted adult.
 
Fasten reflective tape to costumes and bags to help drivers see trick-or-treaters.
 
Carry a flashlight to help you see, and help others see you.
 
Only walk on sidewalks or on the far edge of the road facing traffic.
 
Wear well-fitting masks, costumes, and shoes to avoid blocked vision, trips, and falls.
 
Enter homes only if you're with a trusted adult. Otherwise, stay outside.
 
Never walk near lit candles or jack-o-lanterns. Be sure to wear flame-resistant costumes.
 
Eat only factory-wrapped treats. Avoid eating homemade treats unless you know the cook well.
 
Examine all treats for choking hazards and tampering before eating them.
 
Swords, knives, and similar costume accessories should be short, soft, and flexible.
 
If your home will be open to trick-or-treaters, be sure walking areas and stairs are well-lit and free of obstacles that could result in falls. Also, keep candle-lit jack-o-lanterns away from doorsteps, walkways, landings, and curtains. Place them on sturdy tables, and keep them out of the reach of pets and small children. Never leave them unattended.

Kindle Freebies for October 30, 2012

Here is today's list of freebies for your kindle! They were all free at the time of this post, but as always, be sure they are free before you check out. The books vary from topics and subjects, and I hope you can find a few that catch your attention.  





Tomorrow is the last day to participate in the fundraiser for the American Cancer Society:


10/23/12

Kindle Freebies for October 23, 2012


Here is today's list of freebies for your kindle! They were all free at the time of this post, but as always, be sure they are free before you check out. The books vary from topics and subjects, and I hope you can find a few that catch your attention.  

 
 

10/22/12

Take a Stand Against Bullying with me



As you are well aware, October is Anti-bullying month. This is your chance to take a stand, speak for those who are afraid to speak up for themselves. You may have noticed that I have been MIA for almost 2 weeks now. It is no secret, I have been dealing with the school system in regards to my kindergartner being bullied. The Principal did not seem to think it was an issue, I did. It is never okay, especially when it gets physical. My son was kicked in the private areas, choked, hit, tripped, and smacked every time he turned around by one particular boy that rode the bus with him that was also in his class. Needless to say, after a meeting with the Principal, and being blown off, I went above her, and the situation has been handled. But, we shall see how long this lasts. What really irked me is how she tried to down play the situation, and tell me that she did not think it was necessary to contact that child's parents. Really? I am not above following the bus route to find out where he is dropped off so that I can notify his parents myself, believe me on that! The school system is well aware that if my child is touched one more time, I will proceed with legal charges and hold them accountable. The Principal also was not pleased when I informed her that I was going to issue my son a whistle to blow any time this child tried to hurt him.

I read this the other day, and wish more teachers would follow suit:

Teacher in New York was teaching her class about bullying and gave them the following exercise to perform: She had the children take a piece of paper and told them to crumple it up, stomp on it and really mess it up, but do not rip it. Then she had them unfold the paper, smooth it out and look at how scarred and dirty it was. She then told them to tell it they’re sorry. Now, even though they said they were sorry and tried to fix the paper, she pointed out all the scars they left behind. And that those scars will never go away no matter how hard they tried to fix it. That is what happens when a child bully's another child. They may say they’re sorry, but the scars are there forever. The looks on the faces of the children in the classroom told her the message hit home.

Maybe that would be enough for a child to understand the severity of their actions? 


Bullying is not just "kids being kids". It can have a damaging impact on children, families and communities. As an adult, I know I can help in a few specific ways. Here is my pledge:

I will speak up — I will take a stand about this issue, even before it touches my friends and family, so everyone knows I take it seriously.
I will advocate — I will advocate for children, both my own and oth
ers, in need of my help. I will support quality bullying prevention training for all school staff so everyone can effectively help our children.

I will be a role model — I will show kids how to deal with conflicts by setting the standard with my own behavior.
I will be a partner — I will work with schools, parents, caretakers, coaches, and others working hard to stop bullying - especially if they report my child is involved.

Bullying makes kids want to be invisible. We can show them, through our actions, that we see them, we are listening - and most importantly - they can count on us to make their lives better. Taking this pledge is the first step, so I will forward it to my friends and family to grow a community committed to ending bullying. I will speak up.
 
I will leave you with one last thought:  
 
Bullies have no lives, they bully because they are insecure. Kids get bullied every day and people do nothing about it. You see bullying everywhere, and it doesn't have to happen. The more people stand up and do something about it, the less it will happen. So fight against bullying. Why do we have so many kids that like to bully other kids? Answer: They are learning it from their parents. Solution: punish the parents and the children. Even if I am standing alone, I will be standing up for what is right. I may step on a lot of toes, and tick off a lot of people, but I am doing what any mother would do for their child- protecting them. I promised my son I would always protect him, no matter what, and that is what I intend to do. God help anyone that stands in my way. 

Kindle Freebies for October 22, 2012

Here is today's list of freebies for your kindle! They were all free at the time of this post, but as always, be sure they are free before you check out. The books vary from topics and subjects, and I hope you can find a few that catch your attention.